Oh, the journey of motherhood. It is a journey that comes with no manual or certification. But, like me, I hope it has been an incredible journey for you.
Motherhood is a journey that can be overwhelming at times, struggling to reach our personal goals while growing a family. A virtuous task that can be all-consuming – a 24-hour, 7-days-a-week job, that’s all worth it.
We all promised ourselves that motherhood wouldn’t be the end of us. But then we found ourselves in uncharted waters. We try our best, and sometimes we fail. We laugh and sometimes cry. We lose our tempers and sometimes get wrapped around their little fingers.
While motherhood is a blessing, we sometimes find ourselves preoccupied with the sole purpose of meeting the many needs of our children. Our self-sacrifice becomes the norm, and we lose our identity in being devoted mothers. Then the day comes when the center of our worlds, the person who kept us grounded, our reason for living, finally becomes an adult. The unfamiliar feeling of being lost overwhelms us, prompting us to revert to our pre-parenting selves. The person we have grown to ignore and frequently dismiss. So, while we all can admit that we love our kids, we sometimes, as moms, are desperately in need of a break.
While being a mother is one of the greatest accomplishments, this post is to encourage you to save at least a little piece of yourself by remembering to allow yourself the space to be human. Take the time to do something that you enjoy, even if it means taking a break from your family. You deserve to have some alone time to recharge your batteries and return with a refreshed mind and spirit.
Remember to surround yourself with supportive friends and family members who understand the challenges of motherhood and are willing to lend a listening ear or a helping hand. These people can provide you with the necessary support system to help you navigate the ups and downs of motherhood.
Happy Mother’s Day! May this day remind you of the incredible journey you have been on as a mother…The struggles and joys that come with it, and the importance of taking care of yourself. You are doing an incredible job, and your dedication and love for your family do not go unnoticed. Keep up the great work!
This post was originally written in 2015 but was refreshed and republished.
